Confidence in Relationships by contributor Erin Kaneris

You have to be confident when in relationships. Most times in relationships we can be timid, insecure, unsure. And mostly its because we are giving time to things to see change, or we are simply not wanting to risk being alone because of it.

But in those times of weakness or insecurity we put up with a lot. Little things here and there that we don’t particularly care for, or something that concerns us but yet we put into our back pocket for discussion on a later date.

But most of the time, when were confident, we don’t put up with bull! We are stronger, bolder, more outspoken. We dont give a shit when we are confident in just ourselves because we know who we are and we are proud of it. The other person can take a hike if they dont like it, and honestly that is best. We can always thank them later too. We have to stand for what we know, what we deserve, and who we are because the more attractive you are to yourself the more attractive you will be to the right person! Don’t settle for less. And I don’t only mean less in another person, but dont settle for less than what you are. Pick someone strong, confident, sure of themselves and what they stand for. Remember when picking a partner you are picking your battle partner. Someone who you need to back you up and vice versa. You want someone well equipped.